Aquarius in Love
January 20-February 18

Aquarius is the fixed-air sign. They are progressive, liberal 'thinkers' who also tend to hold onto their thoughts and ideals with tenacity. (The fixed influence) They are generally more comfortable with a friendly love partnership where they feel secure enough to continue pursuing their many varied interests. They are hard to pin down and even harder to get into a solid commitment but once there that fixed influence makes them loyal and trustworthy companions. Albeit with an eclectic influence. Aquarians adore friendships of the impersonal type and usually have a revolving door of buddies. They can be completely enchanted by any one of their new acquaintances and the group they attract runs the gamut from the off-beat and 'odd' to the powerful and the wealthy. Your Aquarian doesn't judge people by 'what' they have rather by their principals and actions. Aquarians require someone pretty secure within themselves as they are inherently self motivated and need the freedom to pursue their latest ideal or whi


Aquarius Sexuality: Aquarius is the sign most likely to forget about sex entirely. It isn't that they don't enjoy it....they do when they feel comfortable and secure....but there are so many other things to explore with their minds and so little time. When caught in the 'mood' they are explorative, frisky and playful. They take obvious delight in the attention their partner gives them. They can be extremely self conscious about their bodies or their sexuality or completely uninhibited and sometimes both. The bedroom becomes a playground to further solidify the bond of friendship that the Aquarian needs in their life and they are delightful companions when they feel good about the union..and about themselves.


The long term story: Lots of open mindedness, freedom to pursue their interests and constant input to the friendship are the building blocks for maintaining a long term relationship with an Aquarian. Remember that they are the rebels of the zodiac and if they feel they are being controlled or ignored their defense can be to automatically rebel against any incoming input from their partner. Their natural instinct tells them to do the opposite of what is expected. They jump wholeheartedly into their latest cause but can do about faces so suddenly it takes ones breath away. It's important to have a 'go with the flow' system in place and gradually the Aquarian learns to be more vocal and explanatory about their thoughts, their movements and their actions. They make dedicated and genuinely sincere and warm mates once they commit and they possess the spark that can keep the friendship a dynamic and ever growing platform to journey into eternity on.


Positive Traits in Love: Playful, friendly, spontaneous, open minded, caring, devoted, liberal, understanding, tolerant, benevolent.

Negative traits: Erratic, undependable, self oriented, cold, aloof, mean, self centered, unable to commit, judgmental, fickle.

What an Aquarius likes:Friendship, Freedom, Intellectual stimulation, Camaraderie, Surprises, Companionship, Feeling understood and Emotional safety

What an Aquarius Dislikes:Jealousy, Possessiveness, Control, Ego plays, Narrow mindedness, Being ridiculed, Routines, Fighting/violence Inequality, Being taken for grantedBeing understood (note: this makes the Likes list as well...they're unique but you already know that)


Aquarius Love Keywords:Friendly, charming, open minded, liberal, accepting, non-judgmental, playful, spontaneous, erratic, eccentric, undependable, non-committal,aloof.