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5:53 PM
Sunday, July 24, 2005
picture of the day!
Seven Friends Nobody NeedsAll friends are not created equal.
Most buddies add to your life, but there are probably a few you would be better off without. The common denominator for these friends-gone-bad is that they act as if it's all about them and never about you. We're all guilty of being a little self-absorbed at times, but friendship is supposed to be a two-way street. If one of your friends isn't holding up her end of the bargain, consider calling her on her bad behavior -- or slashing her from your buddy list. (One word of caution: Before you start friend-cleaning, ask yourself if you fit any of these descriptions. You don't want one of your pals reading this and deciding to dump you!)
1. The whiner. Nobody knows the troubles she's seen. Things most of us accept as part of daily life -- carpool snafus, demanding bosses, men with poor communication skills -- she treats as evidence that the world is against her. We all enjoy complaining occasionally, but with her it's a nonstop moan-fest. Susan, 30, a public relations executive, refers to one of her friends as "the Crisis Queen." "It's always a catastrophe. It's draining just to have to hear it," she says.
2. The leech. She treats her friends like servants who exist to feed her dog, cover her shift at work, pick up her dry cleaning or peel her another grape. "She'll start off asking what I'm up to, but she really just wants to find out if I'm free to help her out," says Ellen, 39, a stay-at-home mom, about the leech in her life. "She recently called to ask what my daughter was doing. I said nothing, thinking she was going to invite her over. Instead, she asked if her daughter could come to my house!"
3. The busy bee. She's the PTA president, a party organizer and a domestic goddess all rolled into one. She makes you feel as if you are but a mere blip on her overscheduled radar screen. She consistently shows up late or says she's too busy to take your calls. "Since my friend got a new job, all she talks about is her crazy schedule," says Leslie, 26, an environmental consultant. "She makes it seem as if she's doing me a big favor by making time for me!"
4. The yakker. Thank God for caller ID. Everybody has friends that like to talk (if any of my pals are reading this, please know I've got that muzzle on order), but this buddy never lets you get a word in edgewise. In fact, she missed her calling as a telemarketer or a carnival barker. "I could hand the phone to one of the kids for five minutes and she wouldn't notice," says Kristi, age 42, a personal coach, of her personal Chatty Cathy. "Next time she calls, I'm going to have the country song 'I Wanna Talk About Me' playing in the background and see if she gets the hint."
5. The adviser. We all count on our friends for advice, but nobody needs a steady stream of unsolicited intervention. Whether this pal is trying to prove how smart she is or start her own counseling practice, she's got the answer for everything -- whether you ask her or not. Jodie, 32, a part-time nurse and mother of two, says she quit sharing things with one of her friends because, "She can't just listen; she always has to tell me what to do. She reminds me of the mother-in-law from hell!"
6. The dumper. Whenever something better comes up, she drops you like yesterday's business. The worst kind of dumper is the one that treats her female friends like fill-ins or time-passers until a guy comes into the picture. Jennifer, 24, a law student, says of one boy-crazy friend: "You'd think she was still in high school. We'll make plans weeks in advance, but if her boyfriend calls and asks her to hang out, she rushes over."
7. The bragger. She's been there and done that -- way better than you have. She just can't resist telling you how many carats her diamonds are or how much better her office is. She lets you know that your discount designer duds are so last season, while her outfits came straight from the Paris runway. "My conversations with this one friend consists of how important she is at work, what she's done to her house and how perfect her marriage is," says Julie, 31, a human resources administrator. "Doesn't she know it's supposed to be a friendship, not a competition?"
Most buddies add to your life, but there are probably a few you would be better off without. The common denominator for these friends-gone-bad is that they act as if it's all about them and never about you. We're all guilty of being a little self-absorbed at times, but friendship is supposed to be a two-way street. If one of your friends isn't holding up her end of the bargain, consider calling her on her bad behavior -- or slashing her from your buddy list. (One word of caution: Before you start friend-cleaning, ask yourself if you fit any of these descriptions. You don't want one of your pals reading this and deciding to dump you!)
1. The whiner. Nobody knows the troubles she's seen. Things most of us accept as part of daily life -- carpool snafus, demanding bosses, men with poor communication skills -- she treats as evidence that the world is against her. We all enjoy complaining occasionally, but with her it's a nonstop moan-fest. Susan, 30, a public relations executive, refers to one of her friends as "the Crisis Queen." "It's always a catastrophe. It's draining just to have to hear it," she says.
2. The leech. She treats her friends like servants who exist to feed her dog, cover her shift at work, pick up her dry cleaning or peel her another grape. "She'll start off asking what I'm up to, but she really just wants to find out if I'm free to help her out," says Ellen, 39, a stay-at-home mom, about the leech in her life. "She recently called to ask what my daughter was doing. I said nothing, thinking she was going to invite her over. Instead, she asked if her daughter could come to my house!"
3. The busy bee. She's the PTA president, a party organizer and a domestic goddess all rolled into one. She makes you feel as if you are but a mere blip on her overscheduled radar screen. She consistently shows up late or says she's too busy to take your calls. "Since my friend got a new job, all she talks about is her crazy schedule," says Leslie, 26, an environmental consultant. "She makes it seem as if she's doing me a big favor by making time for me!"
4. The yakker. Thank God for caller ID. Everybody has friends that like to talk (if any of my pals are reading this, please know I've got that muzzle on order), but this buddy never lets you get a word in edgewise. In fact, she missed her calling as a telemarketer or a carnival barker. "I could hand the phone to one of the kids for five minutes and she wouldn't notice," says Kristi, age 42, a personal coach, of her personal Chatty Cathy. "Next time she calls, I'm going to have the country song 'I Wanna Talk About Me' playing in the background and see if she gets the hint."
5. The adviser. We all count on our friends for advice, but nobody needs a steady stream of unsolicited intervention. Whether this pal is trying to prove how smart she is or start her own counseling practice, she's got the answer for everything -- whether you ask her or not. Jodie, 32, a part-time nurse and mother of two, says she quit sharing things with one of her friends because, "She can't just listen; she always has to tell me what to do. She reminds me of the mother-in-law from hell!"
6. The dumper. Whenever something better comes up, she drops you like yesterday's business. The worst kind of dumper is the one that treats her female friends like fill-ins or time-passers until a guy comes into the picture. Jennifer, 24, a law student, says of one boy-crazy friend: "You'd think she was still in high school. We'll make plans weeks in advance, but if her boyfriend calls and asks her to hang out, she rushes over."
7. The bragger. She's been there and done that -- way better than you have. She just can't resist telling you how many carats her diamonds are or how much better her office is. She lets you know that your discount designer duds are so last season, while her outfits came straight from the Paris runway. "My conversations with this one friend consists of how important she is at work, what she's done to her house and how perfect her marriage is," says Julie, 31, a human resources administrator. "Doesn't she know it's supposed to be a friendship, not a competition?"
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5:48 PM
Wednesday, July 20, 2005
I am Aquarius, My Lover is Libra
This is a sassy, exciting pairing of two similar souls, sure to be a hit. You both enjoy lots of social activity, and neither would expect the other to wait at home in the traditional sense. In fact, ordering dinner in several times a week will be the only way to handle the busy schedule you both lead! Your coupling is thoroughly modern. But even the best relationship demands that the partners accommodate each other. In your case, be mindful that Libras care about social acceptance, while you don't give a fig about it. Ruled by idiosyncratic Uranus, Aquarius' job in life is to press forward and to make all kinds of new discoveries. In doing so, you will run up against the Establishment at times. This frightens Libra, for this Venus-ruled sign's job is to bring opposing forces together. They want to be popular and will go out of their way to bring harmony to relationships. You can see how your roles differ; in many ways, Aquarius is a sign of extremes. Libra's friends are likely to be in the arts, yours in the sciences; nevertheless, your friends mix well. And Libras entertain beautifully, so your parties would be much-talked-about affairs! Libras like to be married, but Aquarius like space and freedom; commitment doesn't come quickly or easily. Sexually, you link up in a heavenly way, with plenty of fun, wit and experimentation. You will enjoy Libra's use of perfume or cologne (female or male, this sign is a fragrance wizard) and their refined, cultured personal style. Libra takes good care of their physical appearance well into old age. Your Libra will enjoy your quixotic and playful approach to sex. Your Libra is the romantic of the two of you, so let him or her take the lead for some starlit evenings. Physically, you are on the same plane, but you aren't as emotional as a Scorpio, a Pisces, or a Cancer. However, your Sun sign lights up Libra's house of true love, so the bond remains very strong here, even though to the outside world you may appear to have a cool, detached, and analytical relationship. Your Libra lights up your house of deep philosophical thought and distant travel. This match gets a four-star rating. If things go wrong, it isn't because you aren't suited to one another. Both of you are air signs -- like-elements get along great together. In your case, you both know how to communicate clearly, objectively, and you share an overriding quest for truth. You will have a rich, busy, and noisy life together. Sounds like fun!
I am Libra, My Lover is Aquarius
Yes, yes, yes! This is one match you must go for! Aquarius is perfect for you, Libra. Both of you are communicators -- you're sure to have long talks, lively debates, and flashes of brilliant inspiration from one another. Any relationship has its little bumps and yours will be that Aquarius is a freedom-loving sign whereas you want to wed. Aquarius' detachment and cool reserve may be a bit maddening when you're waiting for a commitment; you have to be patient. You have the right basic compatibility. Libra is a refined and elegant sign. You like to go to sophisticated, high-class restaurants -- feeding pigeons on a park bench or checking out the local diner might not be what you had in mind. Just try to understand that your Aquarius is undoubtedly saving up for a new Powerbook or extra RAM for that new computer, so spending money on food seems, well, less interesting. Pull out your credit card and show them what they're missing. You may be able to distract Aquarius, even if you can't reform him or her. Libras want to form deep friendships before they fall in love, and your Aquarius will agree. This lover could become your best pal. Aquarius are playful and experimental in bed. At times reserved, polite Libras will be shocked by some of the ideas Aquarius can suggest for lovemaking. But your good nature will lead you to listen and try practically anything once. Libra, give this love a chance. This is an outstanding match despite the initial differences
This is a sassy, exciting pairing of two similar souls, sure to be a hit. You both enjoy lots of social activity, and neither would expect the other to wait at home in the traditional sense. In fact, ordering dinner in several times a week will be the only way to handle the busy schedule you both lead! Your coupling is thoroughly modern. But even the best relationship demands that the partners accommodate each other. In your case, be mindful that Libras care about social acceptance, while you don't give a fig about it. Ruled by idiosyncratic Uranus, Aquarius' job in life is to press forward and to make all kinds of new discoveries. In doing so, you will run up against the Establishment at times. This frightens Libra, for this Venus-ruled sign's job is to bring opposing forces together. They want to be popular and will go out of their way to bring harmony to relationships. You can see how your roles differ; in many ways, Aquarius is a sign of extremes. Libra's friends are likely to be in the arts, yours in the sciences; nevertheless, your friends mix well. And Libras entertain beautifully, so your parties would be much-talked-about affairs! Libras like to be married, but Aquarius like space and freedom; commitment doesn't come quickly or easily. Sexually, you link up in a heavenly way, with plenty of fun, wit and experimentation. You will enjoy Libra's use of perfume or cologne (female or male, this sign is a fragrance wizard) and their refined, cultured personal style. Libra takes good care of their physical appearance well into old age. Your Libra will enjoy your quixotic and playful approach to sex. Your Libra is the romantic of the two of you, so let him or her take the lead for some starlit evenings. Physically, you are on the same plane, but you aren't as emotional as a Scorpio, a Pisces, or a Cancer. However, your Sun sign lights up Libra's house of true love, so the bond remains very strong here, even though to the outside world you may appear to have a cool, detached, and analytical relationship. Your Libra lights up your house of deep philosophical thought and distant travel. This match gets a four-star rating. If things go wrong, it isn't because you aren't suited to one another. Both of you are air signs -- like-elements get along great together. In your case, you both know how to communicate clearly, objectively, and you share an overriding quest for truth. You will have a rich, busy, and noisy life together. Sounds like fun!
I am Libra, My Lover is Aquarius
Yes, yes, yes! This is one match you must go for! Aquarius is perfect for you, Libra. Both of you are communicators -- you're sure to have long talks, lively debates, and flashes of brilliant inspiration from one another. Any relationship has its little bumps and yours will be that Aquarius is a freedom-loving sign whereas you want to wed. Aquarius' detachment and cool reserve may be a bit maddening when you're waiting for a commitment; you have to be patient. You have the right basic compatibility. Libra is a refined and elegant sign. You like to go to sophisticated, high-class restaurants -- feeding pigeons on a park bench or checking out the local diner might not be what you had in mind. Just try to understand that your Aquarius is undoubtedly saving up for a new Powerbook or extra RAM for that new computer, so spending money on food seems, well, less interesting. Pull out your credit card and show them what they're missing. You may be able to distract Aquarius, even if you can't reform him or her. Libras want to form deep friendships before they fall in love, and your Aquarius will agree. This lover could become your best pal. Aquarius are playful and experimental in bed. At times reserved, polite Libras will be shocked by some of the ideas Aquarius can suggest for lovemaking. But your good nature will lead you to listen and try practically anything once. Libra, give this love a chance. This is an outstanding match despite the initial differences
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12:33 AM
Friday, July 15, 2005
i wan dem allllllll...!!!!!
hahaha..love all dis pic which i took frm flowerpod.
ahaha..esp the one which resemble my hamster i used to haf.
aww..cant stop luffing when i look thru the pix..
hahaha..love all dis pic which i took frm flowerpod.
ahaha..esp the one which resemble my hamster i used to haf.
aww..cant stop luffing when i look thru the pix..
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9:41 PM
hahaa...took all dis foto frm flowerpod.
love all of demmmm.....
soooooooo cuteee lohhhhhh....
cant stop luffing looking at the pix.:)
hahhaha...i wan all of dem.
*mua chee promised me xiao bai n da bai one horrrrrr.....
love all of demmmm.....
soooooooo cuteee lohhhhhh....
cant stop luffing looking at the pix.:)
hahhaha...i wan all of dem.
*mua chee promised me xiao bai n da bai one horrrrrr.....
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9:37 PM
slping soundly..so cueeeeeeeeeeeee
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9:37 PM
hahaha...4 leg up the sky.
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9:37 PM
:P
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9:37 PM
haha..stuckkkkk
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9:36 PM
ahhaha..my fav,.......
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9:36 PM
awwwwwww....love dis cute little pup..so ke aiiiiiiiii,........
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9:36 PM
ahahhaha..another cute doggy
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9:35 PM
awww...in dreamland
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9:34 PM
droolingggg
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9:33 PM
haha..dozing off..~~
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9:33 PM
whoooowhooo...cute riteee..love dem mann.......
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9:30 PM
ahahahaa...so cuteeeeee hahahahaa...
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9:29 PM
hammy wake up frm a bad hair dayy..
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9:29 PM
cutee hammy...awww..looks like the one i use to haf...
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9:28 PM
hurhur..soo cutee..
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9:27 PM
i love XIAO BAiiiiiiiiiiiiii
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9:27 PM
Singapore Fireworks Festival 2005
Sat 6th Aug 2005 (7pm)Portugal Team (IVO Shows) 10-15 mins Spectacular endings with single glaring silver finale.
Mon 8th Aug 2005 (midnite)Singapore Team (Intermay & Spectaworks) 10-15 mins Multi-Colour endings depicting our Multi-racial & Harmony society.
Tue 9th Aug 2005 (9pm)Singapore Mini Display 6-8 mins Multi-Colour endings depicting our Multi-racial & Harmony society.
Sun 14th Aug 2005 (7pm)France Team (Brezac Aritifices) 10-15 mins Grand display of Golden Brocade Crown at the finale.
wawaaaaaaaa.......im gonna go for all dis days.hohohohoooooo
love fireworks :)
Sat 6th Aug 2005 (7pm)Portugal Team (IVO Shows) 10-15 mins Spectacular endings with single glaring silver finale.
Mon 8th Aug 2005 (midnite)Singapore Team (Intermay & Spectaworks) 10-15 mins Multi-Colour endings depicting our Multi-racial & Harmony society.
Tue 9th Aug 2005 (9pm)Singapore Mini Display 6-8 mins Multi-Colour endings depicting our Multi-racial & Harmony society.
Sun 14th Aug 2005 (7pm)France Team (Brezac Aritifices) 10-15 mins Grand display of Golden Brocade Crown at the finale.
wawaaaaaaaa.......im gonna go for all dis days.hohohohoooooo
love fireworks :)
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5:59 PM
Sunday, July 10, 2005
Picture of daa dayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
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12:41 AM
Primary school memoriessss
sudden tot of my primary school frens when mua chee n his fren was discussing abt a primary school gathering.
shuld say i enjoy da most in primary school.
playing of the swings where the guys will help us to push.ahaha
den once i *4gtHu* fell down on the sand.damn funny i tell u
skipping of saturday remedial together n go to the nearby mac to eat..tok kok.. throw fries.
den went over to plae block catching n kanna scold frm the block people.*but we still continued*
buying the cuttlefish dipped in soya sauce n ma you in canteen .haha..its the trend in sch hor.every1 buys it.
raza made liqiu fell down n he request to show her his *niao2* muahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa..
stupid eugene chase me when i went home till i fell down badly.worst still he made me fell down n run away without giving a hand.
peifen performing her all time fav oldies in school whenever theres a special occasion..aww..missed dat mannnnnn..ahhahaha
still rem all the small small childish crush all of us haf in sch oso.
we will alwaz gather to go pasa mallam together
n the autogragh thing where all of us will pass ard.
best fren..good fren..close fren...n stuff
so lamee cannnnnnn
awww...pri sch memories jus goes on n on.......
ahaha..miss dem mann.....
sudden tot of my primary school frens when mua chee n his fren was discussing abt a primary school gathering.
shuld say i enjoy da most in primary school.
playing of the swings where the guys will help us to push.ahaha
den once i *4gtHu* fell down on the sand.damn funny i tell u
skipping of saturday remedial together n go to the nearby mac to eat..tok kok.. throw fries.
den went over to plae block catching n kanna scold frm the block people.*but we still continued*
buying the cuttlefish dipped in soya sauce n ma you in canteen .haha..its the trend in sch hor.every1 buys it.
raza made liqiu fell down n he request to show her his *niao2* muahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa..
stupid eugene chase me when i went home till i fell down badly.worst still he made me fell down n run away without giving a hand.
peifen performing her all time fav oldies in school whenever theres a special occasion..aww..missed dat mannnnnn..ahhahaha
still rem all the small small childish crush all of us haf in sch oso.
we will alwaz gather to go pasa mallam together
n the autogragh thing where all of us will pass ard.
best fren..good fren..close fren...n stuff
so lamee cannnnnnn
awww...pri sch memories jus goes on n on.......
ahaha..miss dem mann.....
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12:18 AM
Wednesday, July 06, 2005
Picture of the dayyy!!!!!!!
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10:44 AM
Tuesday, July 05, 2005
favouriteeeeeeeeee
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11:44 PM
Vaseline Intensive Care Lotion
Total Moisture
haf been using it for awhile.
haha..imagine having to apply it to ur body everytime after u bathe.
yea..mite be ma fan laa..
but hu noess...im addited to it.
esp the smell...damn nice. +mua chee love the smell too..hahaa
n i heard frm people in the forums.
when it applied to ur eye lash it will amazingly grew longer.
eye for a guy2 denis keller said it too. <===in some mag .
but i wonder which vaseline product haf dat effect.
finding it out.
hahaa..in the wish of longer eye lashes.....hohoohoh
Total Moisture
haf been using it for awhile.
haha..imagine having to apply it to ur body everytime after u bathe.
yea..mite be ma fan laa..
but hu noess...im addited to it.
esp the smell...damn nice. +mua chee love the smell too..hahaa
n i heard frm people in the forums.
when it applied to ur eye lash it will amazingly grew longer.
eye for a guy2 denis keller said it too. <===in some mag .
but i wonder which vaseline product haf dat effect.
finding it out.
hahaa..in the wish of longer eye lashes.....hohoohoh
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11:25 PM
Menu of the day..
since those typical chinese restaurant alwaz haf their dishes came out with some weird dish name.i decided...to name them too.
hahaaaaa..
since those typical chinese restaurant alwaz haf their dishes came out with some weird dish name.i decided...to name them too.
hahaaaaa..
- dua pui chicken wings soak in oyster sauce.
- happy fried dou ya.
- fishy breaded filet.
drink of the day..
chrysanthemen tea
n the outcome..................
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1:40 PM
beforeee
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1:38 PM
before
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1:38 PM
:PPPPPPPPPP
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1:37 PM
one piece eaten by me le.
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1:35 PM
afterrrrrrr
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1:35 PM
Sunday, July 03, 2005
brokeee..
haha..currently declared broke liao..
so sad man.guess wad.
i only left with a pathetic 1dollar +
hoho..
n bank with jus 5 bucks.
lucky getting pocket money tml
n hopefully LG is kind to pay our salary sooonnnn..
*pls drop some money from the sky......*
haha..currently declared broke liao..
so sad man.guess wad.
i only left with a pathetic 1dollar +
hoho..
n bank with jus 5 bucks.
lucky getting pocket money tml
n hopefully LG is kind to pay our salary sooonnnn..
*pls drop some money from the sky......*
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12:31 AM
Friday, July 01, 2005
UPDAtess ...
haf been working fer LG for the past weekend.
sales was bad.
but at least i gt paid just standing dere.
anyway..pple..dun go to dis shop in simlim
'cybermind' which is tend by 2 girls.
their face damn black.n haf gt AP.
some of the characters which i hateee..
Bitchy pple.
they r the ones hu alwaz backstab.
nt jus pple dey dun like.
but worst still their own frens.
dey only noe how to bitch n complain.
but yet to realise how it feels to" being bitch*ed of" or backstab.
hao lian pple.
dey alwaz tink dey r smart.
i admit.some r reali reali smart.
but some will go2an extent dat dey will look down on pple.
cos i alwaz tink every1 of us r special or own some "talent" in their own special way.
3)pple hu stick to you becus u r SMART
sometimes we can see pple sticking to u.
befriend u.get close to u.'po' you..
why..?jus becos u can help dem with their work.
:P
im soo bored.
VB test on monday
prays harddddddd........
haf been working fer LG for the past weekend.
sales was bad.
but at least i gt paid just standing dere.
anyway..pple..dun go to dis shop in simlim
'cybermind' which is tend by 2 girls.
their face damn black.n haf gt AP.
some of the characters which i hateee..
Bitchy pple.
they r the ones hu alwaz backstab.
nt jus pple dey dun like.
but worst still their own frens.
dey only noe how to bitch n complain.
but yet to realise how it feels to" being bitch*ed of" or backstab.
hao lian pple.
dey alwaz tink dey r smart.
i admit.some r reali reali smart.
but some will go2an extent dat dey will look down on pple.
cos i alwaz tink every1 of us r special or own some "talent" in their own special way.
3)pple hu stick to you becus u r SMART
sometimes we can see pple sticking to u.
befriend u.get close to u.'po' you..
why..?jus becos u can help dem with their work.
:P
im soo bored.
VB test on monday
prays harddddddd........
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10:25 PM